sometimes life is really surprising. you go along, doing what you need to do, and then something completely unexpected lands in your lap.
when a thing like this happens, it’s difficult for me not to treat it like a hot potato – toss it back! i’m slowly learning to how to just sit with something, digest it, assimilate, experience – before making a decision.
i’m getting better at responding where i used to react. it will take time and practice, but i think it will get easier for me.